The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
— Albert Ellis
 

 

“Man” is what you do, how you live your life. “Male” is an anatomical definition. It is becoming more and more clear to me that we have too many males applying the wrong descriptor when they refer to themselves as “men”.

For Women or the partners of men or anyone else that hangs out with one

Seriously, I’m not leaving anyone out

Stuff that you might find useful

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